RE: sluts who become prudes. This is one of my most despised complaints from (certain) men. It's like asking why you behave differently on vacation: for whatever reason jumping into bed with someone felt like a good idea at the time, and maybe it ended badly so you learned your lesson. I know so many women who would wait to have sex only…
RE: sluts who become prudes. This is one of my most despised complaints from (certain) men. It's like asking why you behave differently on vacation: for whatever reason jumping into bed with someone felt like a good idea at the time, and maybe it ended badly so you learned your lesson. I know so many women who would wait to have sex only to be dumped as soon as it happens anyway, getting gunshy isn't strange, and the attitude that men are entitled to it because others have been granted the privilege of fucking you (sarcasm) is so off-putting. Sex happens on a case by case basis, it's not something someone you're dating is owed, it's supposed to be a mutually satisfying experience, not a privilege granted to the male.
I was a failed slut and nowadays wouldn't rush into bed with a man because I've changed, just like how I used to avoid carbs and now I don't, or how someone else might've been a heavy drinker/drug user and aren't anymore, or used to eat meat and now are vegan. Another analogy that might work is how you behave on vacation vs when you're at home. You might want to take risks and try things when there's no pressure for it to work out, for that to be held against you by potential serious partners is so gross.
RE: sluts who become prudes. This is one of my most despised complaints from (certain) men. It's like asking why you behave differently on vacation: for whatever reason jumping into bed with someone felt like a good idea at the time, and maybe it ended badly so you learned your lesson. I know so many women who would wait to have sex only to be dumped as soon as it happens anyway, getting gunshy isn't strange, and the attitude that men are entitled to it because others have been granted the privilege of fucking you (sarcasm) is so off-putting. Sex happens on a case by case basis, it's not something someone you're dating is owed, it's supposed to be a mutually satisfying experience, not a privilege granted to the male.
I was a failed slut and nowadays wouldn't rush into bed with a man because I've changed, just like how I used to avoid carbs and now I don't, or how someone else might've been a heavy drinker/drug user and aren't anymore, or used to eat meat and now are vegan. Another analogy that might work is how you behave on vacation vs when you're at home. You might want to take risks and try things when there's no pressure for it to work out, for that to be held against you by potential serious partners is so gross.